Change an outdated order or make sure the current one is followed. We handle custody, child support, and alimony modifications, as well as enforcement actions through show cause, wage withholding, and interstate tools in Guilford County District Court.
Krispen Culbertson, Greensboro family lawyer, practicing in Guilford County District Court for 20+ years. Focus on custody, child support, and alimony modifications, contempt and show cause, wage withholding, and interstate matters under UIFSA and UCCJEA.
Memberships: North Carolina State Bar; local family law section. Courts: Greensboro and High Point District Court calendars.
Fast answers
When can I change custody: show a substantial change since the last order and why the new plan fits your child’s needs today.
When can I change support: a material shift in income, overnights, insurance, or childcare; the three-year and 15% guideline review can also apply.
Can alimony change: often yes with a material change unless the agreement says non-modifiable.
How to enforce: contempt and show cause, wage withholding, liens, license remedies, and clean payment records.
Out-of-state orders: register first; some rules, like duration, follow the issuing state.
Emergencies: fast filings when safety or a sudden move puts a child at risk.
A custody change starts with two questions: what has changed since the last order, and how does a new plan serve your child now. Courts look for facts that matter for day-to-day life, then consider best interests.
Common changes the court sees
New school needs, special education plans, or attendance problems
Medical or therapy needs that alter routines
Work shifts that affect exchanges or overnights
A parent’s move that complicates a school week or breaks the home-state tie
Substance concerns, violence, or repeated violations of the current order
A long pattern of one parent shouldering most duties
Proof that helps
Attendance and grade reports, IEP or 504 documents
Doctor and counseling notes
A simple calendar showing overnights and exchanges
Texts, emails, screenshots, and travel receipts
Witness statements from teachers, coaches, or caregivers
Interim relief
You can ask for temporary schedules, neutral exchange points, or specific school and activity rules while the case is pending.
Relocation and home-state rules
If a move is on the table, jurisdiction and notice questions arise under UCCJEA. We address home-state status and the right court before you spend time or money in the wrong place.
Agreed changes
When parents agree, convert the deal into a consent order so the school, doctors, and law enforcement have clear directions.
Support should match real numbers. When life shifts, the order may need to shift too.
Triggers for a change
Job loss, new job, promotion, or overtime patterns
Health insurance changes or work-related childcare shifts
A different custody schedule that changes overnights
A three-year review and at least a 15% difference between the current amount and a fresh guideline run
Guideline math that courts use
North Carolina uses Worksheets A, B, or C depending on the schedule. We collect pay stubs, tax returns, childcare invoices, and proof of insurance premiums, then produce worksheets the judge can trust.
Arrears do not vanish
Past-due support remains collectible. We set realistic payment terms and credit rules while the new amount starts.
Wage withholding
Clean orders and employer notices keep payments on track and create a reliable record for both sides.
Alimony focuses on need and ability to pay, plus case factors like health, employment, and budgets. A change in any of these can support a new amount or an end date.
When a change is realistic
Significant income drop or a documented health issue
A paying party’s retirement that is genuine and in good faith
A supported party’s new income or lower expenses
Cohabitation or remarriage by the supported party, when applicable
Check the paperwork first
Some separation agreements label alimony as non-modifiable. We review your order or agreement before you file.
When safety is at stake or a move threatens stability, speed matters. We file for emergency custody where the law allows, request temporary restraints tied to the family case, and set quick return dates so both sides can be heard.
Evidence and records that move cases
For modification
Pay stubs, tax returns, benefits letters
Health insurance premiums and childcare invoices
Overnights calendar and school records
Medical notes or therapy summaries tied to the request
For enforcement
A payment ledger and bank proofs
Screenshots, emails, and exchange logs
Travel records and costs for make-up time
Presentation
Simple timelines and labeled exhibits help the judge follow the story fast.
Your first 72 hours with our team
1) Goal map Decide whether to modify, enforce, or both. Pick the fastest lawful route.
2) Order review Spot terms that help or block your goal, including mediation clauses, fee clauses, and venue.
3) Filing plan Motion to modify, show cause for contempt, or registration steps if the order is from another state.
4) Proof checklist What to upload now, what to request, and who to subpoena.
5) Hearing dates Set expectations for service, mediation, and court, plus what must happen before each step.
Anything that meaningfully affects your child since the last order, such as new school needs, health issues, work shifts, or a move that disrupts the schedule.
Can I modify child support if I lost my job?
Yes if the loss is real and not voluntary. Bring proof of job search, income, and expenses. The court will rerun guidelines.
Do arrears go away when my income drops?
No. Past-due amounts remain. You can ask for a new amount going forward and a payment plan for arrears.
How do I file contempt for missed parenting time?
Document each miss, collect messages, and file a show cause motion. Judges often set make-up time and clearer rules.
Can I change alimony if my ex remarried?
Remarriage of the supported party can end alimony in many cases. Bring your agreement or order so we can confirm the terms.
How do I register an out-of-state order in Greensboro?
File the registration packet with Guilford County District Court. For support, follow UIFSA. For custody, follow UCCJEA.
Can the court act quickly if a parent plans to move with the child?
You can request expedited or emergency relief when facts support it, then set a quick return date for both sides to be heard.
Will my driver’s license be at risk for unpaid support?
License remedies can apply in some support cases. A steady payment plan and wage withholding often prevent that result.
Can we agree on a change without a hearing?
Yes. Put it in a consent order so schools, HR, and the court can enforce it.
How long does a modification or enforcement case take?
Timing depends on service, mediation, the court calendar, and how complete your evidence is. We set a clear timeline at the consult.
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